My Host Mother
Laura Ann LaBianca
Baldwin Senior High School
Long Island, NY
If there were a way to describe the incredible experience that
I had during my trip to Japan, I would say it. But it is unexplainable.
There are no words that can explain the inspiration received when
you have a three-hour conversation with your host mother. But
this conversation is unlike all others because my host mother
understood about twenty words of English. We shared simple things
about our lives through ways of charades and electronic translators.
Our favorite word was "Mo ee- yo", which means "stop"
in English. Sometimes both of us would forget and ramble on in
our own native language. This caused the other one to be forced
to say "Mo- ee- yo" which ended the conversation in
laughter.
On Sunday, I spent the entire day with the family. My host mother
was very interested in everything about my family, especially
my mother. At night, after figuring out how to change the computer
to English, I helped my host mother write an email to my mother
at home in the United States. Both mothers were completely delighted.
Also during that Sunday, my host mother and I traded cooking recipes.
We found that we both like the other's recipe better. My host
mother cooked some awesome meals for the entire time that I was
there. She helped me with using chop sticks and all the ways to
properly eat Japanese cuisine.
While my host student, Miyuki, completing her homework, my host
mother and I would talk well past midnight. Through our conversations,
I found that she was much like my own mother. She was caring,
clever, sensitive, and very inquisitive. At first her questions
were surface questions about how to play lacrosse and what my
school is like. Gradually, after my host mother saw my pictures
from home and assuring her many times that she could not offend
me in anyway, she began to ask more personal questions about things
like my family, friends, and my boyfriend. She loved to know about
my day, about what I did back in the United States, and loved
to share stories from her own life. Most of all she loved her
family and the Japanese customs. Without my host mother, my trip
to Japan would not have been as memorable.
Thank you, my host mom!